Aashraya could also be a place where your children meet others like themselves, and where they can feel at home. It is important for a child to know that there are others like him/her out there, facing the same problems as he/she is; this feeling can raise the child out of the depths of self pity and anger and provide the courage to bear his/her illness with dignity and optimism.
Being surrounded by other people who have undergone a similar treatment, can also reduce post operative stress and anxiety. A word of encouragement coming from such a person could truly put one to ease. It also improves the trust one has on the surgeon.
Here you have the opportunity to not only receive help, but also to provide it. Parents and older children can step into counselling and supporting roles, as they develop their communication skills and learn the value of empathy.